Author: V K
For most of us, just hearing the word "cancer' sends a chill up our spine. The thought of receiving such a diagnosis causes spiraling thoughts of funeral plans and decisions about who will raise our children. For most, it's a wake up call to begin living differently. It makes life rich when you get that the party is going to be over at some point. But not everyone finds the gift in cancer. Many struggle with identity issues when they're diagnosed. The question becomes, who are you when you can't do what you do? When you get cancer, you can't go into work everyday. You can't be the mom you were, you can't go to all the soccer games. You can't even pick up the baby because you had a mastectomy. You can't cook because you're too tired. So who are you now?"
Dr Andrew Weill relates the story of a Japanese banker who was a workaholic and developed kidney cancer. He refused surgery. After he was healed through the intervention of an acupuncture therapist, he said, "I became aware of the natural healing power that was in me and around me. Gradually, I began to realize that I had created my own cancer by my own behavior. I saw that I had to love my cancer, not attack it as an enemy. It was part of me, and I had to love my whole self." He is now a changed man. Acceptance, submission, surrender whatever one chooses to call it, that mental shit may be the master key that unlocks healing
